
I arrived Lagos about three months ago to stay with my uncle and his wife, who’s an Ibo woman. By the way my uncle is from Edo State and their marriage is about four years without kids. In the last week of August my bros travelled to the North on official business and something happened in his bedroom.
I came back that day because I could not meet up a job appointment in Igando area due to heavy traffic. I was reluctant to return home since I had just left but I couldn’t think of a better place to go so I headed home. On getting to our compound, I didn’t find the gate man at his post and I was even angry because of the security risk of him leaving the gate open like that.
But something got me worried when I saw the gate man’s sandals right inside our sitting room. I just told myself that something is going on between my uncle’s wife and this dirty boy. I was right, when I moved close to the window of my uncle’s bedroom I started hearing screams of sexual pleasure from his wife. I tried to peep into the room but it was difficult because of the protector.
So, I summoned courage and walk to the door as if I wanted to tell my uncle’s wife that I was back. I opened the door and caught the adulterous woman red-handed under the dirty gate man (boy). Sadly, the gate man was already ejaculating so he couldn’t get up immediately, it took him few seconds to jump off and grab his clothes.
I simply walked away and returned to the sitting room, pretending to be watching a programme on the TV. Few minutes later my uncle’s wife joined me and started begging that it would not happen again. I didn’t say a word but when she kept pressing I said ok I’ve heard. Later she brought food for me but I refused it and since then she has been putting pressure on me.
The unfortunate thing is now she even wants me to sleep with her as an assurance that I wont tell my uncle, always coming to my room half naked. Because of this I’ve not been eating in the house in the last one week, I’m almost going broke already.
My uncle may be back next week. I will like people with more experience to tell me what to do when he comes back. Should I tell my uncle the kind of wife he married or quietly move out?
September 7, 2012 at 2:03 pm
since the person in the case is your uncle, he needs to told but while telling him make sure the woman will not tune against you at last. what do i mean?, prove your self with reasons or points that are acceptable but be kiaful cus you have no evidence of orove but really your uncle needs to be told of this cus since that woman wants you too to be sure, 1 day she will go and sleep with an aids carrier and come back home to give it to your uncle. in the other way round you save the marriage but try to open an office from her your uncle’s wife, but she is a bad woman and can do any thing any time. she is not worthy to be a wife of any body, she is a prostitute and needs not to be saved no matter what. tell your uncle but be careful ok, dats my advice.
September 7, 2012 at 6:15 pm
That is a shameful act.but what i wil say is that ur life is in danger,wheather u tel ur uncle or not.it is even advisable 4 u 2 tel ur uncle.because she cn do nd undo(kill u) if u dont say it,bcs she will be havn the fear that u may say it one day in that wise she may plan evil towards u.
September 7, 2012 at 6:38 pm
Abeg tell your uncle oh! Before it is too late. The right time is now.
September 7, 2012 at 6:39 pm
Go ahead n tel ur uncle, u can call him now and tell him that you have something for him, but till he comes before u tel him, dat wil reduce d risk
September 7, 2012 at 8:14 pm
I wil advice u tel him cos she is evil n can kill ur uncle at anytim n get married 2 anoder man. so do it now……!
September 10, 2012 at 9:54 am
This strange, pls find ur way out blc she can hurt u. Tel ur uncle as soon as possible
September 10, 2012 at 7:03 pm
Pls, make sure u dont tell ur uncle bcos dat wil break his heart & his marriage, wat wil u gain if d marriage breaks up? Just simply warn d wife & preach 2 her.
September 11, 2012 at 11:36 pm
Well point of correction,no one God has created is dirty.It is wrong of u 2 call the gate man dirty,i believed ur uncle’s wife lured him 2 bed the same she tried on u.The woman will never change,so i think u shld tell ur uncle n then tell ur uncle not 2 confront d wife,plan with ur uncle hw 2 catch her in d act,when she is caught im tellingshe will pack out without any1 asking her 2,but dont eat her food 4 now.Pray she does not bewitch ur uncle.
September 13, 2012 at 5:54 pm
Pls u tell ur Uncle in secrete, n make sure U n ur Uncle set a trap on her. Always show her u kept her secrete.
September 14, 2012 at 3:04 pm
My broda, open up 2 ya uncle. Dat lady s a disgrace 2 womanhood.
September 15, 2012 at 6:45 am
Seek the confidence o our brother before you tell him. You have to do this to save his life. Quickly look for alternative place to live. Otherwise, either you tell your brother or not, that woman is alredy planning against you. Pray fervently to avoid her plans against you.
October 6, 2012 at 6:13 pm
My dear pls tel ur uncle immediately becos its nt nw dis whole tin startd so nw dat she has bin caught her cup is ful so go ahead and tel ur uncle if nt she wont b comfortable wit u in dat house so its beta u save ur life and dat of ur uncle b4 its 2 late
October 10, 2012 at 3:13 pm
Pls my brother tell ur brother bcos such a woman can poison even ur brother but first try and give ur brother a proof by setting the wife up with the gateman and then invite ur brother
January 14, 2013 at 7:39 am
U made a great mistake by not capturing them o. tape do not tell ur uncle until u have an evidence .
February 8, 2013 at 6:28 pm
Please do not tell your uncle. Much as I agree that what the woman is doing is sinful and unacceptable, I’m of the opinion that the man might have been responsible for what is happening. It’s obvious the woman is sex starved and that is why she could do it with a gateman. Many women are suffering in their marriages because they are not sexually satisfied. Unfortunatelt, they can’t leave their husbands, partly because of society’s view on divorce or because of the guarantee the marriages provide.
My advice: Call your husband aside and tell him you overheard his wife in a discussion with one of her friends telling the latter what she was going through and that if not for the love she has for her husband she might have started an extra-marital affair. Tell your uncle to create time for her because from what you can observe she may not be able to hold on for a long time. Thereafter, leave the matter to the two of them to sort themselves out. Never let your action cause a marriage to break. You will reap what you sow.