Popular Nollywood actress, Stella Damasus has come up with with a list of things that men really want and how women can keep their men. Here is what she has to say.
Now we know that the one thing men cannot live without apart from money is S&X. Wives don’t deprive your husbands or they will get it elsewhere.
What men want:
-They want to feel like they are in control of things which is not bad because they are the head.
-They want to feel loved and like it or not they are our first babies who desire words of affirmation no matter how macho they seem.
They want to feel WANTED all the time, it gives them the confidence that all men crave for.
- They want to know you are still s*xually attracted to them.
- They don’t want you to make it obvious that you are smatter even if you are.
- They like their space and alone time.
- They don’t want to come home to a fat mama who is the opposite of the s*xy curvy woman he fell in love with.
- They don’t want to come and hug you after work with you smelling of onions and oil. At least take a shower before he gets there or if there is no time spray perfume.
- They want to come home to a nice smelling neat and tidy home.
- They want you to be a good listener not just a talker.
- They want to know that you believe in them and you are proud of them.
- They want to know that no matter what you will have their back and support them, then ask questions later.
- They just want to see that you are making an effort because no human should expect you to be perfect.
- They don’t want another mother but they want you to take care of them the way you would your kids.
- They want a wife, girlfriend, sorry to say (personal call girl) which is not a bad thing because he is your husband who is free to express his s*xual desires as long as they are not life threatening or demeaning.
Think about this objectively, try out what you agree with and discard what you don’t. Leave the messenger out of it for a change and see the bigger picture ahead.