Signs You Must Watch If You Plan On Marrying Your Girlfriend
Marriage is life-changing and can be destructive if it is embarked on with the wrong person.
You have to be absolutely sure that the woman in your life is someone you’ll be happy spending time with every day of your life, forever.
Here are some signs that your girlfriend will make a good wife…
A woman who will make a good wife has to be caring and nurturing. She’s going to be majorly responsible for the well-being of you and your children. She should be kind and compassionate, willing to take care of others without grumbling.
You cannot nurture a grouch,so the man himself must deserve nurturing
2. She’s Dependable
A great wife should be someone you can trust and rely on. She should be someone who will support her man no matter what, someone you know you can count on, come rain, come shine. You must in return be loving ,caring ,appreciative and show it,you don’t expect what you don’t give
3. She’s Respectful
Disrespect is one of the major causes of marital dysfunction. The woman you decide to marry should respect you no matter what. She should respect your family and your friends, even if she doesn’t like them. She should be a respectful person all round.
4. She’s Humble
A proud woman will encourage grudges and nothing destroys relationships faster than malice. The ideal wife should be able to apologize even when she isn’t in the wrong.
If you lack the same qualities may baba God pair you with a wife just like you
5. She Must Be Emotionally Stable
The woman you decide to marry should be stable emotionally and otherwise. An emotionally unstable woman can’t handle the pressures of marriage. She should be mature and know how to handle situations without constantly losing her cool. You don’t want to marry a woman who will break down in tears over every little challenge.
If you expect a non emotional spouse ,then you picked the wrong gender for a wife,find a man like yourself
6. She Must Love Children
The ideal wife should love children. She should like to have them around her and willing to play with them always. This is a sign that she’ll be capable of taking care of the family you build together.
7. She Must Be A Good Cook
She doesn’t have to be a chef but a great wife should be able to feed her family. She must be able to cook good food and not just Noodles.. You know some babes can’t boil water.
8. You Both Should Have A Lot In Common
It can be the same kind of music or the same hobbies or even just a love of books. If there are things you both like to do, that’s a good sign you are entering a marriage of happiness and longevity.
9. She Must Be Comfortable To Communicate With
There is nothing more important in a relationship than communication, and if you are considering making it official by marrying her, you have to feel comfortable talking with her about any and everything. The more you communicate with your woman, the less likely the two of you will get into arguments because you both will be able to talk about your problems instead of holding them in.
10. You Can Laugh Together
Mutual laughter is an essential component of a strong and healthy marriage. Romance is much better if you can see humour in the little things and can have a laugh together.
Above all, you must remember that there’s no such thing as a perfect person so there can’t be a perfect wife. Love is about accepting that person you’ve chosen even with all their flaws and deciding to love them no matter what.
What other qualities do you consider necessary for an ideal wife?
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