Ladies of this generation are obviously not interested in men who are broke or stingy; women are starting to hustle hard too.
Women choose the first date to study the men who they go on dates with. They can tell from the things that happen there whether the date is stingy or not. Find out some of the things they check out in order to know whether their date is stingy or not:
1. When he sets the date in his house
Some guys could be so annoying and forceful; they would insist on you coming over to their house on a first date. Stingy guys do this in order not to spend much.
Most ladies are usually edgy and unsure about having the first date in the men’s houses. Some shameless men go on to manipulate the ladies by making them cook. When he does all these, then you should know your date is stingy.
Sometimes, the plan of making his place the venue for the date may be foiled. Your date may be forced to reconsider taking you to an open place on date.
When a guy orders a cheap meal for you or coaxes you to order something cheap, you do not need much proof to tell you what kind of person he is when it comes to spending.
3. When he complains about the cost of the meal you ordered
When you are on a date with a guy and he cannot stop talking about the expenses he has to cover because of the date, then you should know that he is really stingy.
You can bet he would make you feel uncomfortable with his constant nagging. He may deviate and tell you about the major projects he is handling in order for you to know that he has lots of responsibilities.
4. Then he goes on to order nothing
If your date is one of those guys who take ladies out on a date and watch them eat while they starve to death, then you should know that he is stingy.
Why on earth would he choose not to have anything when you have ordered? He probably does not want to spend extra; that is better than him running off when he sees the bill anyway.
5. When the date is in a shabby environment
Some men deliberately take ladies to shabby environments and local bars where things would be relatively cheap in order to cut down the expenses of that hangout.
Some of these guys know that such places do not befit them but they would do it all the same. If you find yourself in one of those places, you should know the kind of person you are about to start a deal with.
Honestly, some guys in this part of the world are shameless. They take you on dates and suggest you split the cost.
If you experience this on your first date, then your date is very stingy. But if you actually suggested it and he agreed, then he has failed the first test.
If your date mentions anything that is related to sex because he bought you a plate of food then you should know that he is a stingy man who wants to get paid in kind. Avoid hanging out with men like these as they have little or nothing to offer you.